Social networking may be the most significant area where men and women differ, with women being far better at maintaining and creating new relationships. The first thing we notice after we leave work is how important our connections were. Historically, the primary social support for men has been their career. Men rely on their partner to be their best friend though they may have many acquaintances or buddies but the depth of these relationships is often not great. Having a large number of friends is less important than the quality of our relationships.
Social isolation and loneliness are widespread problems in the U.S., posing a serious threat to our mental and physical health. About one in three adults reports feeling lonely; about one in four U.S. adults report not having social and emotional support. The number of women over 65 years of age who are single is nearing 50%. The number of persons over 65 living alone exceeds 28%.
Finding one’s purpose later in life by taking part in a community service project or engaging in an affinity group with people of similar interests can be a great way to increase your network of friends. These affinity groups could be sports related; educationally promoted; spiritual in nature or based upon an array of hobbies.
